You might have seen a flier like this on the Colorado State University Campus. If you checked out this poem (Crimson in White) I hope it encouraged you to be strong and to think in a way that is not self-destructive emotionally or physically.
After someone close to us dies, no matter what the cause, it is sometimes easy to blame yourself and to say “If only...”
Please think about the words in that poem. Think about the power of the cross.
The power of the cross gets us through life victoriously. The reason is simple. All of our regrets were nailed to that cross. Jesus gave up his life so we could live. He carried our sorrows. He carried our regrets. He took the punishment for all the sins of the world.
If you are living in regret, think about this: “There is now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.” Romans 8:1